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Jak ale ve v\u00fdsledku … ","datePublished":"2021-09-14","dateModified":"2023-04-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.tasmina.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.tasmina.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f5ad5dcd5c02ecc0fdaf1fe4b2e9a39ad5c5cc2b614885090f6f77b1ccabb3a9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f5ad5dcd5c02ecc0fdaf1fe4b2e9a39ad5c5cc2b614885090f6f77b1ccabb3a9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"tasmina.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.tasmina.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/girl-3194977_640_4.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.tasmina.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/girl-3194977_640_4.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.tasmina.cz\/volna-vychova-nebo-prisny-rezim\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":756,"articleBody":"Ve v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed existuje spousta sm\u011br\u016f, na jejich\u017e okraj\u00edch stoj\u00ed dva, jejich\u017e vyznava\u010di si vz\u00e1jemn\u011b nemohou p\u0159ij\u00edt na jm\u00e9na. Jsou to voln\u00e1 v\u00fdchova, a p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fd re\u017eim. Jak ale ve v\u00fdsledku tyto sm\u011bry ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed d\u011bti, a kdo m\u00e1 tedy pravdu?Voln\u00e1\u00a0v\u00fdchovaPod t\u00edmto pojmem si m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159edstavit spoustu v\u011bc\u00ed. V\u011bt\u0161inou se v\u0161ak jedn\u00e1 o v\u00fdchovu, kter\u00e1 je upravena dle pot\u0159eb d\u00edt\u011bte, bez n\u011bjak\u00e9ho v\u00fdrazn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho omezov\u00e1n\u00ed. Neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee rodi\u010de nechaj\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b hr\u00e1t si s no\u017eem, \u010di zapalova\u010dem, nebo sk\u00e1kat z balkonu ve t\u0159et\u00edm pat\u0159e, to u\u017e by se mluvilo o zanedb\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Kter\u00e9 body voln\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy jsou obvykle nejv\u00fdrazn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed?\u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 ve\u010derka – d\u00edt\u011b jde zkr\u00e1tka sp\u00e1t a\u017e v dobu, kdy se c\u00edt\u00ed b\u00fdt unaven\u00e9, a nastavuje si tak sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed re\u017eim. Je pravda, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s pot\u0159ebuje jinou dobu sp\u00e1nku, av\u0161ak mnohdy b\u00fdvaj\u00ed tyto d\u011bti p\u0159i vst\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed do \u0161kolky, \u010di \u0161koly unaven\u00e9, a ne tolik v\u00fdkonn\u00e9. Nemluv\u011b o tom, \u017ee i rodi\u010de si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u011bhem dne chv\u00edli na sebe, t\u0159eba jako partne\u0159i, nebo ka\u017ed\u00fd s\u00e1m, a to s d\u011btmi za zadkem zkr\u00e1tka nejde.Sebevyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed – co se sebevyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed t\u00fd\u010de, voln\u00e1 v\u00fdchova d\u00e1v\u00e1 d\u011btem volnou ruku. Mohou plakat, sm\u00e1t se, k\u0159i\u010det, nebo se vztekat kdekoliv a kdykoliv cht\u011bj\u00ed. Je to zp\u016fsob, jak se nau\u010dit zpracov\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 emoce, a nestyd\u011bt se za n\u011b. Mo\u017enost b\u00fdt sami sebou. Je ale pravda, \u017ee v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, kdy se d\u00edt\u011b rozk\u0159i\u010d\u00ed na ve\u0159ejnosti, v autobuse, \u010di v obchod\u011b, lidem okolo to p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 nen\u00ed. D\u00e1le pak prob\u00edh\u00e1 sebevyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed i v\u00fdtvarnou formou, kdy rodi\u010de ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b nap\u0159\u00edklad kresl\u00ed po st\u011bn\u00e1ch, \u010di rozb\u00edj\u00ed v\u011bci. Dle nich se pak jedn\u00e1 o to, \u017ee v\u011bci maj\u00ed pouze slou\u017eit, a st\u011bna pokreslen\u00e1 jejich d\u00edt\u011btem je osobn\u00ed um\u011bleck\u00e9 d\u00edlo. To \u017ee n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva nesouhlas\u00ed u\u017e je pak jej\u00ed probl\u00e9m.Jez co chce\u0161 – zast\u00e1nci voln\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy nenut\u00ed d\u011bti j\u00edst n\u011bco, co jim nechutn\u00e1. D\u00edt\u011b si tak sm\u00ed zvolit co j\u00edst bude, a co ne, ani\u017e by muselo poz\u0159\u00edt cokoliv mu nen\u00ed po chuti. Probl\u00e9m nast\u00e1v\u00e1, kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011bti chutnaj\u00ed jen sladkosti.P\u0159\u00edsn\u00fd re\u017eimNa druh\u00e9 stran\u011b stoj\u00ed zast\u00e1nci p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9ho re\u017eimu, jejich\u017e c\u00edlem je vychovat z d\u00edt\u011bte schopn\u00e9ho \u010dlena spole\u010dnosti, kter\u00e9ho nic nep\u0159ekvap\u00ed, ani nezastav\u00ed na cest\u011b za jeho c\u00edlem. Co si ale pod p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fdm re\u017eimem zastavit?Dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dasov\u00e9ho harmonogramu – tedy bud\u00ed\u010dek p\u0159esn\u011b v 6.00, v 6.20 sn\u00eddan\u011b, 6.45 hygiena atd. To m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011bti pomoci, aby se nau\u010dilo dodr\u017eovat \u010dasy, b\u00fdt organizovan\u00e9, a pravideln\u00e9. Nev\u00fdhodou je, \u017ee s takov\u00fdm re\u017eimem si nenajde d\u00edt\u011b dostatek \u010dasu na aktivity, kter\u00e9 jej pr\u00e1v\u011b zaujaly, a t\u011b\u017eko se jeho harmonogram bude slu\u010dovat s voln\u00fdm \u010dasem p\u0159\u00e1tel.Dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed pravidel za ka\u017edou cenu – nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, zda m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b \u0161patnou n\u00e1ladu, venku je \u0161patn\u00e9 po\u010das\u00ed, nebo mu pr\u00e1v\u011b um\u0159el zv\u00ed\u0159ec\u00ed kamar\u00e1d. Pravidla se mus\u00ed dodr\u017eovat, a tak je t\u0159eba se p\u0159ipravit na povinnou proch\u00e1zku za mraziv\u00e9ho dne, neexistuje opustit neuklizen\u00fd pokoj, nebo nesplnit sv\u00e9 povinnosti.Tresty za pochyben\u00ed – sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9ho re\u017eimu jsou tresty, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti uk\u00e1zat, \u017ee je za sv\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed pln\u011b odpov\u011bdn\u00e9. Obvykle se jedn\u00e1 nap\u0159\u00edklad o z\u00e1kaz voln\u00e9ho \u010dasu, dom\u00e1c\u00ed v\u011bzen\u00ed, zabaven\u00ed obl\u00edben\u00e9 hra\u010dky, nebo opisov\u00e1n\u00ed textu. Nen\u00ed zde v\u0161ak p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 prostoru pro individualitu d\u00edt\u011bte.Kter\u00e1 strana m\u00e1 tedy pravdu? Nejsp\u00ed\u0161 ani jedna. D\u00edt\u011b by m\u011blo b\u00fdt vychov\u00e1v\u00e1no tak, aby z n\u011bj byl jednou samostatn\u00fd a zodpov\u011bdn\u00fd dosp\u011bl\u00fd, ale tak\u00e9 osoba s vlastn\u00edm n\u00e1zorem, empati\u00ed, a smyslem pro spravedlnost.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (9 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Voln\u00e1 v\u00fdchova, nebo p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fd re\u017eim?","item":"https:\/\/www.tasmina.cz\/volna-vychova-nebo-prisny-rezim\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]